The results are nearly in, sort of

So I had the CT a few Fridays ago, essentially to check on how the Xeloda has been working, as I have been having some dizziness and more pelvis/sacrum/hip joint pain (where my bone mets are). When I went for my monthly jab I got the results...They are a mixed bag.
Yay Xeloda is doing its job well (I am on 3 each day) the larger of the spots on my liver was classed as stable just under 1cm still, and the two smaller ones are now barely visible. The bone mets on my pelvis are stable, have shown no change. So that is the really good news... I do wonder as I have settled in with Xeloda now whether the dose should be increased.
However, they did find a few spots on my brain, which they suspect could be mets, and recommended an MRI a to confirm or deny! My onc wasn't too phased about the brain ones, except for my dizziness, I was happy to reassess next month if my dizziness continues (my thinking is I am pretty sure I had a good dose of flu, and have had low wcc and neutrophils and picked up everything this winter...still filled with snot, so this could be adding to my unsteadiness) . I will have the MRI just before my next xgeva jab.
So...still in limbo.... Fatigue is nuts, but it's the end of term and everyone is tired.... a week to go.
My rock is having trouble coming to terms with it all, and has put his head in the sand a bit :( but we will get there...
The past week has been dismal, but the weather is looking up, and this weekend I head to Sandown for the V8s... hope I make it through... should be there today, but I am resting, taking it easy... getting my energy levels up.

Scanxiety

Ahhh scanxiety at its best! Last month when I had my denosumab/xgeva shot I had two weeks of extreme bone pain. it was a different to normal pain that just about knocked me out! I was not even able to drink without feeling sick for days after. I was much more nauseous, and returned to regularly taking maxolon or ondensatron (sp?) 

However, as I was heading towards 8 days off work on long service leave to play with race cars I tried to ignore it... just scoffing down endone each evening.

By the time I was on leave the pain was manageable even with the long days trackside, although sleep was hard (most of my pain is in my hips/pelvis). Alcohol was still not good, and I preferred to just drink water, after having felt seedy for way longer than I should have after a couple of after race drinks.

First day back from leave was also my next denosumab/xgeva shot, and I detailed the increased pain. I see my onc each injection day as I have it at Cabrinin Day Oncology. So he has upped my fentanyl patch and ordered bone and CT scans which I had yesterday.

Curiously the scan day began normally, I had the CT first, then went and had the nuclear med injected into the canula left in my arm. They didn't say much with the CT, but then neither did I. Everything moved smoothly. I have clearly lost weight as the attractive gown closed easily this year (15kgs lighter)

My Friday was supposed to be wonderful, spending time with my sister who has driven down from Queensland for a week, we had planned a day of manicures and fun... instead she drove me back to the afternoon session for the bone scan!

I went to mum's for lunch with her and sister (we had planned a much different day) then returned for my bone scan. There were obviously things that they saw... and by the time my head was out of the first one and I could see the screen, I knew the areas in my pelvis etc were showing lots of lights. They also did extra scans of my chest and then I went in for a 3D one, detailed bone scan with overlaid CT "to try and get to the bottom of the lower back/pelvis pain".

It ended up with the doctor coming out to see me, and say that she was happy that it was mostly stable, although there were still a few spots she wanted to investigate and compare to the last one...

This has left me in a very confused state... my sister had accompanied me for the first time... she heard stable and was over the moon... I wondered why the doctor was telling me this... what weren't they telling me? did they want me to relax over the weekend and not worry...

Ahhhhhh as I said initially scanxiety (which my sister was impressed was even a word....LOL) not happy regardless of the result... and even with a stronger patch... I have been teary at work and in heaps of pain... arghhhhh... so now... as the pain is breaking through again, off for more endone, panadol osteo and sleep.

Got to be the strong one

It has been a crazy busy weekend, Friday evening my eldest's Year 12 Graduation mass and dinner, Saturday afternoon at a friend's clothes shopping party, and Sunday my 2nd son's 16th birthday, with a picnic in the park.

On Friday I had a few things playing on my mind, it was day 3 of my patch, so I was feeling some pain in my hips and a couple of the girls I chat with on the ABC forum are coming to their end. I have met one of them a few times face to face, and she always looks so bright and bubbly, and has been told 2-3 weeks. And, of course, all I could think of when I looked at the boys so handsome in their suits, hubby and son, and that they would probably wear them at my funeral... So I was a bit down... When hubby asked what was up I stupidly told him... Forgetting that I have to be the strong one all the time... He walked away... I just wanted a hug... Grrrrr.... We are ok now, but I know I can only let go here...or with the ABC girls. I thought after I was able to hug him when he had his melt down on daffodil day, that he would hug me, and we could cry together... That really hurt... It is really hard keeping things locked in. Thank goodness for the forums.

Hoping to get back to Bikram soon, the head as well as the body needs it!